By Omoniyi Afeez (Oxygen)
“The soul of a child is like clay in the hands of a sculptor; what it becomes depends on the guidance and care it receives.”
In today’s society, we are witnessing an alarming rise in behaviors that many would label as ill or delinquent, especially among young people. It’s not uncommon to see acts of indiscipline, crime, substance abuse, and moral decay becoming normalized in various parts of our communities. What is particularly worrisome is that many of these issues can be traced back to the home—specifically, to the issue of parental negligence.
Parental negligence, a silent but powerful contributor to many of the social ills we are witnessing, has left many children without the guidance and nurturing they need to develop into responsible, ethical adults. In any age where materialism and the race for success often take precedence, parents sometimes overlook their most important responsibility: the proper upbringing of their children.
The Role of Parents in Shaping a Child’s Future
Parents are the first teachers, mentors, and protectors of their children. They have the critical task of instilling moral values, discipline, and direction in the lives of their offspring. However, when parents neglect these responsibilities, either due to the pressure of work, lack of awareness, or simply indifference, the consequences are often disastrous. Many children are left to figure out life on their own, which may result in
adopting harmful behaviors due to lack of supervision or guidance.
Children, especially in their formative years, need to be nurtured with love, attention, and discipline. They need to be taught the value of education, respect for others, and the importance of making positive life choices. When this foundation is missing, children may turn to undesirable behaviors as a means of seeking attention or finding a sense of belonging.
Education and Spiritual Guidance: The Cornerstones of Proper Upbringing
One of the major areas where parental negligence is most glaring is education. The current trend shows that many parents no longer prioritize their children’s education. Rather than being involved in their academic journey, some parents leave the entirety of the burden on schools and teachers. While educators play an important role, they cannot replace the personal responsibility of parents in ensuring that their children are academically and morally sound.
Beyond education, there is also a need for spiritual guidance. A child without a spiritual anchor may lack the internal compass needed to navigate the complexities of life. In times of uncertainty, children need to have a ground in values that transcend material success. This can be achieved through religious teachings or family traditions that emphasize empathy, respect, and accountability.
The Need for Change
The time has come for us, as a society, to recognize the grave impact of parental negligence on the future of our children. Every parents must ask themselves: What legacy am I leaving behind through my children? It is not enough to provide financial support; emotional, moral, and intellectual investment in a child’s development is equally important.
Parents must understand that the actions they take today will shape not only the future of their children but also the future of society. A child left unguided can become a danger to themselves and others, while a well-nurtured child can become a beacon of hope and progress.
A Call to Action
If we want to build a society of responsible, productive citizens, we must start with the family. Parents must prioritize their children’s upbringing and recognize that neglecting this responsibility can have far-reaching consequences. By focusing on the holistic development of children—education, spiritual growth, and emotional support—we can begin to heal the societal wounds caused by negligence.
It’s time for parents to step up and take full responsibility. It is time to give children the love, guidance, and attention they deserve so that they can grow into individuals who will positively impact society. Let us not forget that the future of any society rests on the shoulders of its children, and the burden to shape them lies largely with their parents.
Omoniyi Afeez Oxygen write from Iseyin Oyo state Nigeria, 08144392722
